“Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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It is 2014. Fourteen years past the millennium. Time seems to be moving faster and faster as I grow older. Glory, here I am talking about inconsequential things and wasting more time! Okay, I’ll stop doing that and instead speak about something really wonderful that I learned just as 2013 was drawing to a close and shutting its doors.
My blog, ‘ear ‘ear, was the Runner Up in the Entertainment/Lifestyle category of the prestigious 2013 South African Blogging Awards! When B told me the news, I said to her: “Yeah, but how many people entered? Probably two!”
“Gaynor, stop being klutz-like! I have told you that this is the most important annual blogging competition held in SA.”
Apparently after the public voting, the short listed candidates were judged by a panel comprised of twenty auspicious people from all walks of life – the editors of the Cape Times, and Mail & Guardian through to Jenny Morris, Celebrity Chef and Chester Williams, former Springbok rugby player! A very wide range.
So, can you believe it? Me – a Runner Up! I must admit, I am damn proud of myself.
I am remembering the discussion I had with my best friend last March.
“Oohhh, B, I don’t know about this blogging idea of yours. I mean, people are not going to be interested in what I write. Also, I don’t know if what I write is going to be good enough?And how am I going to find a different story to write about each week? Nah, I think I’ll leave it and go back to my time of watching TV, reading and writing to friends…”
Well, B being B wasn’t going to stand for that! And so at the end of March, very tentatively, my blogging began.
In life one never ever achieves anything “stoksielalleen ” Translation: On one’s own!
I’ve had encouragement and support from so many quarters.
This blog of mine would never have come into being without the persistence and doggedness of B. Yes, I would have given up if it wasn’t for her sheer bl**dy mindedness. She insisted that I could and would be successful. B has always believed in me, so….how can I let her down? The effort she has put into marketing my blog has been phenomenal.
Having agreed to blog, I needed a technical mind to bring it to fruition. It is amazing how in one’s life, certain people are placed there answering one’s needs at just the right time. I had known CJ (aka Chrisjan Botha) since I moved to George. He was my friend but also my computer guru! He agreed to be the behind the scenes technical backup for my blog. He, like B and myself is also deaf. What incredibly “loud” get togethers we had at my blog’s conception. Also, by miracle, he is married to a wonderful photographer, Elmine. The photograph accompanying this blog and also the one in my ‘ear ‘ear blog heading are hers!
And, B was right! I have been getting up to 24,000 people a week viewing my blogs via my various social media links! That is an incredibly large “audience”! I wish to thank the people and companies that have advertised/supported my blog during 2013. Apart from the financial aspect for which I am incredibly grateful, your support means a lot to me because it shows that you had faith in me
So thank you:
Afrihost who so generously sponsor all my Internet needs!
Strydom Gallery
A special mention must go to Nico van der Merwe CEO of Ear Institute. Ear Institute was the first organisation to utilise my advertising space. They agreed to do this, having no knowledge of what my blog would be like. I could have failed and by so doing I would have tarnished their wonderful name. I thank God for such generosity of spirit that was illustrated by Nico and Ear Institute!
I have left my biggest thank you for last. This blog would have died a miserable death if it wasn’t for YOU! It is your comments and your reading of it that keeps this blog and blogger fit and flourishing! Thank you for that and please, don’t stop!
I didn’t expect to get so much pleasure from this blog. And surprisingly, I have! My words don’t tumble freely out. They are rather excavated from the recesses of this perplexing brain of mine. And the excavation takes a long time. Little by little the words reveal themselves. So what eventually lies before me on the page is…well, yes, is precious to me.
So far, I am proud of what I have written.
Oh, Gaynor! what a well deserved accolade. What you write is a pleasure to read, interesting, enlightening and so very well written. I have no doubt that is not an easy task thinking of the material which you draw from experience then finding the right words, phew, makes me feel tired just thinking about it! Don’t stop!
Love,
Sandy
When I get a response such a yours, Sandy, I don’t ever want to stop! Different subject: I know you, don’t i? Where from?
Congratulations Gaynor! Love your blog–keep it coming!
Gaynor! So proud of you. And what a fantastic team you guys make … Well done and keep the magic sparkling with your words and humour (and perseverance) in 2014! x
Thank you, sweet Lisl! The day we spent with you in your workshop was magic. Writing is made so much easier when you are describing something that gave you incredible pleasure!
Hey there, my new blog follower!
Anyone that calls me bright and beautiful must be pretty special themselves!!!
Thank you, Angel. With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Congratulations, that’s superb! You have an excellent team around you and you’re an inspiration yourself. It’s going to be a great year in 2014 for Ear Ear!!!
Thanks, Charli, for all your wonderful advice in 2013! And you’re right – my team are terrific. I hope 2014 goes well for you too.
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Well done you!! Proud of you. Inspirational….
Thank you, Jen. I get so much inspiration from your writing. It’s beautiful!
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Congratulations Gaynor – and B & Chrisjan too !
An amazing achievement in such a short space of time.
Love the photos, Elmine!
We are proud to call you our friends and privileged to have you physically close to us as opposed to virtual on a blog!!!
Wishing you all the best for 2014
Big smile. Your words delight me, Christine. I am so happy to have you and Helmut just around the corner! I will phone you and organise lunch some time next week.
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Well done am proud of you!! Love your stories every week and agree it is time for another book
Lovely blog again-easy to read as always. I enjoy your every day accounts of whatever ! You have done amazingly keep going gal 🙂
Dear Gaynor, well-done! It couldn’t have happened to a more inspiring person. All of the best for 2014! Looking forward to working much closer with you in future.
Well done Gaynor, I love reading it and look forward to the next one xxx
Congratulations Darling Gaynor!
I am not surprised…. Your Blog makes brilliant reading.
Well done precious lady.
You are our shining light.
Keep up the great work.
Tons of love and blessings from
Sandra and the Rose Family.
Well Done and Congratulations Gaynor! We love your Blog!
I’m again in laughter tears reading this! You have a gift of entertaining, I only wish I could write even a little like you….. Keep going, I love reading your Blogs xx HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Well done Gaynor – as they say in “Strictly Come Dancing” – “Keeep dancing” – or, in your case – “Keeep writing”
Dear Gaynor, I have read all your blogs and many congratulations with this blog .
We wish you a Happy New Year in good healthness.
Love Bob and Pien from Holland
Hey there, the two of you!
Thank you for writing. I haven’t seen you for ages! I am so glad that you follow my blog – thank you.
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Congrats Gaynor! So very proud of you! We will celebrate this magnificent achievement with you soon as we get home! 🙂
Big and huge and ginormous congratulations to you, my clever friend. You have really found your ‘thing’ in life and I think it is now time for another book! (But don’t stop blogging – we all love to read it every week) xxxxxx
Big and huge and ginormous congratulations to you. my clever friend. You have really found your ‘thing’ in life! You are a writer supreme and now it’s time for another book! (But don’t stop blogging – we all love them) xxxx
Well done Gaynor. Keep on writing! Carla
Well done am so proud of you! You deserve every award and recognition you can get over and over. Looking forward to this years blogs.
Lots of love
Very well done – always love reading the next installment – let’s see what 2014 has to offer. Love you to the moon and back xxx
You are simply amazing and hugely inspiring. Love Diane x
It brings me joy to read your blogspot, I look forward to the musings of your mind. Continue to inspire and aspire!!
From the first moment we met I was captivated by your uniqueness.
Well done to a tenacious, wonderful, free spirited friend. You deserve every bit of success you get.
Hugs and love
Nola D
So am I.Very proud of you and what you manage to write each week. It takes enormous discipline and a fair amount of courage to put ” pen to paper” every day and to write something that other people would find interesting so well done,keep calm and keep blogging.Love you Mums xx
Thanks, my special MUms!
Love you almost too much!
So many congratulations ! I know the blood, sweat and tears that have gone into making this successful! Keep going my friend! Much love xxx
Smile…You know me, B! Thank you.
how wonderful, darling!! i am thrilled for you… and i always enjoy reading it.. xxx
BRAVO ! Bright and Beautiful Person that you are ! Looking forward to being a new ‘blog-follower’
Have just written to you, Eileen, but not sure if I pressed the right button to come through to YOU!
I said…..Anyone that calls me bright and beautiful must be pretty special themselves.
Thank you, Angel.
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
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