When Mum’s cat died we were dreadfully sad. He was eighteen years old and was much loved. Then the most amazing thing began to happen. The birds came back to her garden in their droves! Weavers, Finches, Sparrows, Sunbirds, Rock Pigeons and ordinary Pigeons. Even a baby albino Pigeon!
For Christmas, B and I gave Mum three large sacks of grain to feed her birds. When Mum let her dog out in the morning, she used to fill a cup with seed and scatter it on the bird table. The birds knew that the bird table was THE place to be. The little birds didn’t stand a chance when the ginormous Rock Pigeons were around. They settled their large, cumbersome bodies on the table taking up all the space and enthusiastically devoured the bird seed. All of it. Mum wasn’t having that! She bought a bird feeder which the Rock Pigeons are too big for. So while the smaller birds cluster around the bird feeder eating to their hearts content, the Rock Pigeons and pigeons devour all the seed that drops onto the ground.
Everyone is content. Even the little Albino pigeon!
I walked over to Mum’s house as I was being picked up there for gym. I made myself some coffee and took it upstairs to sit and chat. There was a sudden flurry of wings and sitting on the balustrade fence outside her room were four Drongos. Drongos are common in South Africa.They have glossy black feathers and red eyes. These birds usually get meals the honest way, such as capturing insects in mid-air using their incredible aerial skills. But at other times, like on cold mornings when few insects are flitting around, the Drongos turn to a life of crime.
When times are hard, this crafty bird can make false alarms to make other animals drop their kill and run from the scene. They then swoop in to pick up the remains! Researchers classify the Drongo as ‘a kleptoparasite’ – an animal that steals food from another creature that has caught it. But the Drongos sitting on the Mum’s balustrade, weren’t set on nabbing someone else’s food. No, these four mites looked expectantly at Mum. That morning, I discovered another way that they get food for themselves.
“Oh, they’ve come,” said Mum. She got out of bed and picked up a Tupperware box at the side of her bookshelf and carried it to the window. She opened it to a pile of cheese.
“Cheese,” I exclaimed, “birds don’t eat cheese, do they?”
“Drongos love it,” was the answer.
Mum would throw a bit of cheese into the air and the birds would collect it with a swooping dive. It was the most magical thing to watch. One of the Drongos had been tagged with a silver bracelet round it’s ankle. An “anklet”!
“I love this one. I call him ‘Oubaas‘.”
I smiled. That was Dad’s name on the farm.
“Watch,” Mum said. “C’mon, Oubaas, come get your cheese.” She held out the cheese cupped in her palm. He looked at Mum. He looked at the cheese. Then he swooped and landed on Mum’s wrist. Very delicately he bent and took a bit of cheese. Maintaining eyes contact with Mum he swallowed it, took another piece and then he was off into a nearby tree where he proceeded to put it on a branch and eat it in a more leisurely fashion.
I stood, totally entranced watching my Mum and her birds. Two mornings later, I went over to find Mum laughing. “You know how I always sleep with my window open. This morning I opened my eyes to see Oubaas inside my room, hopping along the end of my bed. Tik-tik-tik went his little feet and then he would let out his little rousing cry. He was waking me to come and feed him, the little blighter!” Mum said, fresh laughter assailing her.
I get so cross when people say that animals don’t think. They do. It is just that they think in a different way to man. They think in a way man cannot understand. Have you ever watched geese flying in a perfect V. They know who is going to lead, who the next two are going to be and so on. I think that animals often communicate telepathically. This flying in a V is a prime example!
I am sure that many have read The Elephant Whisperer. A couple of years ago when the author, Lawrence Anthony died, somehow his herd of elephants knew. They were hundreds of kilometres away yet they made their way to his homestead and just “hung out” there for a couple of days. Then they left. My heart tugs at that.
Whether it’s Mum’s Drongos, geese flying in a V, elephants mourning a lost friend…animals think. I think that they “think” in a finer way than man.
Lawrence Anthony wrote: “Our inability to think beyond our own species, or to be able to co-habit with other life forms in what is patently a massive collaborative quest for survival, is surely a malady that pervades the human soul.”
Your words and gentle spirit go straight to the soul. So sad to have not been more aware of them and you long, long before now.. So happy that it’s really never ever totally too late for anything, is it? 🙂
Dick, it was wonderful getting to know you!
Take care. With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
I just love watching the birds, and they learn so quickly when you feed them. We were away for a while so I couldn’t feed our birds, we weren’t back a day and they were back and waiting. Lots love
Laugh – wonderful, Caroline!
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Meryl, I have been treated to a trip to England for the past 4 years. I am totally like you regarding their bird life. I get so excited at seeing Bluetits and Thrush on their bird table. And yes, the squirrels are beautiful. I have kept my eyes out for a hedgehog but haven’t come across one yet. I leave for England on the 24th. Once again that whole world will be open to me!
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Enjoy your trip!
I’m also desperate to see a hedgehog, but alas, only saw flattened ones on the road. Apparently they are becoming endangered.
I saw a signpost for a hedgehog hospital in Newton Abbot, Devon, but was unable to investigate, so I don’t know if it’s open to the public.
I love this story ! So beautiful and touching. Such sadness at the passing of a much loved member of the family brings unexpected joy and laughter in its place.
Yes, Diane, I watch Mum and her Drongos and smile!
Softly I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Man thinks of himself/herself to be superior to other creatures, yet when one looks around we can see such a different story. Thank you for sharing this lovely memory Gaynor.
I too enjoy the the antics of the Drongo’s but learnt more about them from your blog. I too was feeding our drongos with cheese but have been breeding ‘meel-worms’ and offer these instead; at first they were reluctant to make the change but now come happily to take them off my hand. Certainly less expensive than cheese to our pocket!.
Meel-worms, cheese…the Drongos are being fed and they are happy, Romary!
Have a blessed day. With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Delightful!
Heart Warming !
Charming!
Bless you Darling Gaynor!
Sandra
Laugh – And those blessings come straight back at you,sweet friend!
And the blessings come straight back at you, sweet friend! Gently I kiss your eyes, Sandy!
Gaynor
Me again!
After getting carried away, I forgot the real reason I wanted to respond, which is to tell you about Mark Deeble’s blog. He and his wife live in Tsavo, filming the elephants, and he writes so lyrically I often get tears in my eyes. I’m sure you would enjoy it if you don’t already follow him.
http://markdeeble.wordpress.com/2014/06/01/adopted-by-an-elephant/
Meryl
Thanks, Meryl, I will definitely look him up.
With a smile I kiss your eyes
Gaynor
Hi Gaynor,
I always enjoy your blog, but particularly enjoyed today’s post about the birds. I live in Chantilly Close in Albert St, and regard it as such a privilege that the birds visit my little sanctuary of a garden in the middle of the busy cbd. I feed the guinea fowl who raise their chicks in the open plot next to our complex, and they know the sound of my garage door opening and come galloping down the driveway like miniature ostriches, so comical. They bring the chicks to drink from my fishpond, less than a metre from where I’m sitting on my stoep with a glass of wine. (I have two older lady cats who I rescued from Cape Town, but they are city girls and are scared of the birds and slink indoors when the guinea fowl come to call)
I work as a carer for the elderly in the UK, and almost every garden has a bird table outside the kitchen window. I get so excited when I see ‘common or garden’ birds that I have only read about, but that the Brits take for granted. On my last trip, in Devon, I was privileged to have a badger coming to call for scraps in the evening, and also caught a glimpse of a deer munching the blossoms on the shrubs in the twilight (didn’t dare tell the old lady, she would have chased both of them). And, of course, the squirrels are a delight.
Thank you again for your wonderful insights.
Best wishes,
Meryl
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